We didn't find out much yesterday, other than that the lump on Matt's leg is not from an injury, but is some sort of tumor. That doesn't mean it is cancer, but it also doesn't rule it out. We saw one of the best doctors in the world for Sarcoma and he assured us that we are in good hands. I believe that and couldn't be more thankful. The next step will be an MRI with contrast. We are praying he will be able to get in for that before the work week ends. Depending on those results, the next step would be a biopsy.
So, for now, the waiting continues. We are taking everything as it comes. We know that God has us in His hands and that this is just another part of our journey. We pray that God will use us and this season to bring Him glory, to teach and strengthen us, and to bring others closer to Him.
I can already see God working in our lives, opening our eyes to things that we have never been aware of, revealing areas that need improvement. As mentioned in my previous post, for several months I have been feeling called to serve others more, to live intentionally. About a month ago, my church started a study in our life groups called "Interrupted", which is geared around shifting focus from self to others. The study has lined up perfectly with convictions I was already having. Now, I am praying for God to help me see the life changes that need to be made so that those things are not just something I'd like to do, but a priority, a habit in our daily living.
Being at MD Anderson yesterday, just being in the presence of so many hurting people solidified that calling for me. My heart ached for each and everyone of them. Not in the way that it use to... feeling sorry for people when in their presence, then carrying on with my own life without a second thought. I wanted to talk to them, to know their story, to hug them. When I left, I saw their faces in my head, I prayed for them and felt compelled to help some how.
If I wait for the 'right' time, when will I begin? If I wait for an obvious need to appear, how many opportunities to serve someone else will be missed? We aren't guaranteed tomorrow, so why not today?
"Jesus went through all the towns and villages, teaching in their synagogues, proclaiming the good news of the kingdom and healing every disease and sickness. When he saw the crowds, he had compassion on them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd. Then he said to his disciples, "The harvest is plentiful but the workers are few. Ask the Lord of the harvest, therefore, to send out workers into his harvest field." Matthew 9:35-38 (NIV)
Wednesday, February 12, 2014
Sunday, February 9, 2014
Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. \\ Albert Einstein
We live in a culture of self satisfaction and instant gratification. So many things that we may want or need can be at our finger tips within minutes, sometimes seconds. We indulge ourselves... In shopping, work, food, social networking, whatever it may be that feels good. We are constantly bombarded with "get rich quick" and "lose weight fast" ads. We want the end result, but rarely wish to wait or put in the work for it.
Even in our salvation.
I have heard things said such as "God wants me to be happy". I have even said something similar, or at least thought it, many times. I am guilty of buying into the lie that God wants me to walk around getting my way and indulging in my every whim. We all deserve happiness, right? Well, yes. The issue is Gods version of happiness doesn't line up with our cultures self seeking version.
I'll admit, buying a new shirt can feel pretty awesome, especially when I paid $5 for it on clearance or at the thrift shop. In those instances, I can even convince myself that it was a good deed since I was so "thrifty". Going out to a fun place for lunch can turn my whole day around. But what about the next day? I am usually right back to wanting to do it all over again.
Unsatisfied.
And that is where all things of this world will leave us. Now, don't get me wrong. I'm not saying taking your job seriously is a problem. I'm not saying you shouldn't buy clothes or eat out with a friend. It's when those things become an idol that the real trouble begins. You may not see it as an idol, but when it distracts from God, that's exactly what it is. When you find yourself seeking those things before Gods will and expecting some sort of gratification to come from them, you are placing those things on a pedestal that belongs only to God.
When I have expectations of my husband and he doesn't meet them... Unsatisfied. When I pin ideas for our next home project and I begin to be unhappy with its current state... Unsatisfied. The list goes on.
The problem is that I am expecting Godly results from ungodly things. I am expecting to be satisfied with things that don't even have the ability to do so.
When I feel a fire burning inside of me to use my talents to glorify God, to minister, to serve, yet I continue on in my every day life just the same as the day before...
I am expecting to suddenly be a difference maker. I want the reward, the fulfillment, but without the work. Without the effort. With the sacrifice and total life change.
So, how do I begin to not only feel but act on my convictions? Right now, I'm not sure. I have failed at it for years. What I do know is that God sees my heart and has the ability to change it. I also know that I am eager to learn and I am ready to accept all that comes with the prayer of life change. Not just the good, but the bad, the dirty, the angry, the ugly. I'm ready to start the journey.
"What good is it, my brothers and sisters, if someone claims to have faith but has no deeds? Can such faith save them? Suppose a brother or a sister is without clothes and daily food. If one of you says to them, “Go in peace; keep warm and well fed,” but does nothing about their physical needs, what good is it? In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead.
But someone will say, “You have faith; I have deeds.”
Show me your faith without deeds, and I will show you my faith by my deeds. You believe that there is one God. Good! Even the demons believe that—and shudder.
You foolish person, do you want evidence that faith without deeds is useless? Was not our father Abraham considered righteous for what he did when he offered his son Isaac on the altar? You see that his faith and his actions were working together, and his faith was made complete by what he did. And the scripture was fulfilled that says, “Abraham believed God, and it was credited to him as righteousness,” and he was called God’s friend. You see that a person is considered righteous by what they do and not by faith alone.
In the same way, was not even Rahab the prostitute considered righteous for what she did when she gave lodging to the spies and sent them off in a different direction? As the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without deeds is dead." James 2:14-26
We live in a culture of self satisfaction and instant gratification. So many things that we may want or need can be at our finger tips within minutes, sometimes seconds. We indulge ourselves... In shopping, work, food, social networking, whatever it may be that feels good. We are constantly bombarded with "get rich quick" and "lose weight fast" ads. We want the end result, but rarely wish to wait or put in the work for it.
Even in our salvation.
I have heard things said such as "God wants me to be happy". I have even said something similar, or at least thought it, many times. I am guilty of buying into the lie that God wants me to walk around getting my way and indulging in my every whim. We all deserve happiness, right? Well, yes. The issue is Gods version of happiness doesn't line up with our cultures self seeking version.
I'll admit, buying a new shirt can feel pretty awesome, especially when I paid $5 for it on clearance or at the thrift shop. In those instances, I can even convince myself that it was a good deed since I was so "thrifty". Going out to a fun place for lunch can turn my whole day around. But what about the next day? I am usually right back to wanting to do it all over again.
Unsatisfied.
And that is where all things of this world will leave us. Now, don't get me wrong. I'm not saying taking your job seriously is a problem. I'm not saying you shouldn't buy clothes or eat out with a friend. It's when those things become an idol that the real trouble begins. You may not see it as an idol, but when it distracts from God, that's exactly what it is. When you find yourself seeking those things before Gods will and expecting some sort of gratification to come from them, you are placing those things on a pedestal that belongs only to God.
When I have expectations of my husband and he doesn't meet them... Unsatisfied. When I pin ideas for our next home project and I begin to be unhappy with its current state... Unsatisfied. The list goes on.
The problem is that I am expecting Godly results from ungodly things. I am expecting to be satisfied with things that don't even have the ability to do so.
When I feel a fire burning inside of me to use my talents to glorify God, to minister, to serve, yet I continue on in my every day life just the same as the day before...
I am expecting to suddenly be a difference maker. I want the reward, the fulfillment, but without the work. Without the effort. With the sacrifice and total life change.
So, how do I begin to not only feel but act on my convictions? Right now, I'm not sure. I have failed at it for years. What I do know is that God sees my heart and has the ability to change it. I also know that I am eager to learn and I am ready to accept all that comes with the prayer of life change. Not just the good, but the bad, the dirty, the angry, the ugly. I'm ready to start the journey.
"What good is it, my brothers and sisters, if someone claims to have faith but has no deeds? Can such faith save them? Suppose a brother or a sister is without clothes and daily food. If one of you says to them, “Go in peace; keep warm and well fed,” but does nothing about their physical needs, what good is it? In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead.
But someone will say, “You have faith; I have deeds.”
Show me your faith without deeds, and I will show you my faith by my deeds. You believe that there is one God. Good! Even the demons believe that—and shudder.
You foolish person, do you want evidence that faith without deeds is useless? Was not our father Abraham considered righteous for what he did when he offered his son Isaac on the altar? You see that his faith and his actions were working together, and his faith was made complete by what he did. And the scripture was fulfilled that says, “Abraham believed God, and it was credited to him as righteousness,” and he was called God’s friend. You see that a person is considered righteous by what they do and not by faith alone.
In the same way, was not even Rahab the prostitute considered righteous for what she did when she gave lodging to the spies and sent them off in a different direction? As the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without deeds is dead." James 2:14-26
Thursday, August 29, 2013
Georgia's Party!
There are a few party remnants still lingering around our house. I am so pleased with how well the party went. It was fun to watch Georgia play with her friends and we enjoyed spending the day with all of our loved ones. I am so thankful for those of you who helped to make her day special.
Here are a few of our favorite moments {and the details for all of you DIY-ers}...
The beautiful cake, cupcakes and the sparkler candle were all from Rise Cupcakes in Friendswood. I used some of the sticks from the Photo Props Kit {link below} and attached washi tape to them at different heights. I folded them slightly to create the cake flags.
We set up a table for party necessities. The ball jars were for adult beverages. They were a nice pop of color against the mainly white decor. The lids and paper straws were ordered from Very Jane. The utensil caddy from Target kept plastic-ware and napkins organized and easily accessible. Framed pictures and fresh flowers added a personal touch. {Photos of Georgia taken by Stephanie Raye Photography.}
As most of you know, Georgia's dress was made by me. I used Butterick pattern B5912. I also made her a crown with decorative ribbon. I just cut it to size and stitched the two ends together.
The party invitations were created by Kelli Murray. Her owl graphic was also used for our game of 'Pin the Party Hat on the Owl'. My friend Stephanie cropped the image and I had it enlarged at a local copy shop. I cut around the owl and pinned it to color coordinating felt pieces
The hats were made from polka dot scrapbook paper cut in to triangles. I placed a small square of adhesive velcro {much safer than pins for little ones} and a round kraft label for the kids to write their names on the back of each hat.
When it came time for the party, I pinned the felt pieces and owl image to the fence. I added a real balloon, just for fun! Each child got a hat and wrote their name on it. When it was their turn, we place a blindfold over their eyes. Whoever was able to 'pin' their hat closest to the correct positioning won. Yay, Loralai!
Georgia received so many wonderful gifts. Here she is reading a card that her 'best friend' made for her. She also got clothes, crayons, dolls {even some handmade ones}, a trike and a 'big girl' bike. We are so thankful!
For the photo booth, we took the table and two chairs that are usually in Georgia's room and set them up outside against the fence. The glasses and mustaches were part of the Photo Props Kit from Paper Source. The chalk board sign was only $5 from Hobby Lobby.
The feathered party hats can be made using the templet found here. I used cream card stock for our hats and hot glued feathers to the tips. I used a small hole punch to make one hole on each side at the base of the hat, fed 1/4 elastic thru each hole and knotted the ends inside of the hat.
I added a ball jar with fresh flowers and set up the camera with a remote. So simple! I think the adults enjoyed it more than the kids. At least, Stephanie and I did!
Lastly, for the party favors...
We picked up some caramel chocolate popcorn from Chocolate Pizzaz. Georgia loves popcorn and theirs is amazing. I also made pink hair bows for the little ladies and tan button-on bow ties for the gents. The small window boxes can be purchased at The Container Store. The window made it easy to find the right bow type while people were leaving. Inside, I put one bow and a small portion of the popcorn wrapped in a small clear bag tied with black and white bakers twine. I finished them off with kraft paper cut in a flag shape, stamped, and attached with a small clothespin.
I hope everyone enjoyed the party. I can't wait to see your little ones in their bows!
And now G is three! Sometimes, I look down at her and see the tiny baby we brought home from the hospital. Its amazing how much can change in such a short time because of one little girl.
We love you, Georgia!
Friday, August 9, 2013
Love.
It is a word that is used loosely these days. We all need it. Most of us long for it. Some of us spend our whole lives searching for it. Others cannot see that it is right in front of them or maybe even run from it.
But, do we really understand what love is?
This article does a good job of explaining the two different meanings of love that we see in the bible. The word "ahab" is most commonly used in reference to human love. The word 'hesed' is most commonly used when referring to Gods love toward us and it is best translated to kindness.
I love (ahab) my husband and my child. Of course. There are many people in my life who I love (ahab). Those people, for the most part, are pretty easy to love. However, when I really ask myself the tough questions about whether I am loving (hesed) to people in general, not just the easy ones, I have to be honest and say that I often fall short.
"Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through Him. This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins."
1 John 4:9-10
We are called to love one another as God loves us. If Gods love for us is translated to kindness or mercy, then we are called to be kind and merciful to each other.
This led me to think about 1 Corinthians 13:13 which says that love is greater than faith and hope. I consider myself a person of faith. I have gone through trials in this life which I believe I only got past because of my faith and hope in God. But, does my life point to that? Is my love greater than my hope and faith? If not, then can I really have faith and hope without love?
Most of these verses are pretty well-known. I have heard, read, and probably even used them time and time again. However, I find myself questioning whether I have ever fully understood or practiced them.
I have a lot of walls. Walls which keep people out and walls that keep me in. Some of those walls are a result of being hurt. Others stem from a fear of letting people see my flaws and being judged. I am sure I am not alone in the fear of loving, but not having it reciprocated. I even wonder if I am afraid to give or accept love due to the responsibly that comes along with it. The base of all of these is fear.
"There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love."
1 John 4:18
I am fearful. My fear keeps me from being able to love on others and often times keeps others from being able to know me enough to truly love me. This fear is keeping me from Gods purpose, His calling for my life.
Where does that leave me? I know that my desire is to live and love in a way that is pleasing God. I know that God promises to give us the desires of our hearts if we are seeking Him (Psalm 37:4) and to refine us for our good (Zechariah 13:9). I pray that I would continue to be made aware of the areas where I am not putting God where He should be. First. Always. Regardless, of how I feel. That my fear of man will be eclipsed by my desire to love man as God loves me. It seems like such a simple thing, yet some how Satan keeps finding a way to creep the fear back in to my heart.
Refine me, so that You can call me Yours and I can call You mine.
But, do we really understand what love is?
This article does a good job of explaining the two different meanings of love that we see in the bible. The word "ahab" is most commonly used in reference to human love. The word 'hesed' is most commonly used when referring to Gods love toward us and it is best translated to kindness.
I love (ahab) my husband and my child. Of course. There are many people in my life who I love (ahab). Those people, for the most part, are pretty easy to love. However, when I really ask myself the tough questions about whether I am loving (hesed) to people in general, not just the easy ones, I have to be honest and say that I often fall short.
"Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through Him. This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins."
1 John 4:9-10
We are called to love one another as God loves us. If Gods love for us is translated to kindness or mercy, then we are called to be kind and merciful to each other.
This led me to think about 1 Corinthians 13:13 which says that love is greater than faith and hope. I consider myself a person of faith. I have gone through trials in this life which I believe I only got past because of my faith and hope in God. But, does my life point to that? Is my love greater than my hope and faith? If not, then can I really have faith and hope without love?
Most of these verses are pretty well-known. I have heard, read, and probably even used them time and time again. However, I find myself questioning whether I have ever fully understood or practiced them.
I have a lot of walls. Walls which keep people out and walls that keep me in. Some of those walls are a result of being hurt. Others stem from a fear of letting people see my flaws and being judged. I am sure I am not alone in the fear of loving, but not having it reciprocated. I even wonder if I am afraid to give or accept love due to the responsibly that comes along with it. The base of all of these is fear.
"There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love."
1 John 4:18
I am fearful. My fear keeps me from being able to love on others and often times keeps others from being able to know me enough to truly love me. This fear is keeping me from Gods purpose, His calling for my life.
Where does that leave me? I know that my desire is to live and love in a way that is pleasing God. I know that God promises to give us the desires of our hearts if we are seeking Him (Psalm 37:4) and to refine us for our good (Zechariah 13:9). I pray that I would continue to be made aware of the areas where I am not putting God where He should be. First. Always. Regardless, of how I feel. That my fear of man will be eclipsed by my desire to love man as God loves me. It seems like such a simple thing, yet some how Satan keeps finding a way to creep the fear back in to my heart.
Refine me, so that You can call me Yours and I can call You mine.
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